Swinging Rules & Etiquette

Swinging in all its glory and sexual pleasure is only possible if a courteous attitude is applied by everyone at all times. Be mindful that every person in every situation has a perceived experience which will satisfy their fantasies.

You may not be included in that experience so be courteous and respect people’s wish, more often than not you will have success if these simple measures are applied.

Whether you feel sexually inclined or attracted to someone always be friendly. Their experience in this lifestyle may be seriously hampered if you are not friendly, and your perfect match might be right around the next corner or even the next naughty room. Effectively treat others how you want to be treated yourself!

Always make sure you head to a swingers party or swingers club prepared. Some common items to throw in your carry bag are – Personal hygiene products, hair care, change of clothes, costumes or lingerie, play toys and also remember to bring your own drinks. Most swingers club do not supply or sell alcohol.

Most swingers clubs and swingers parties provide lubricant and personal protection but if you have personal favourites in that area you will need to bring your own. Better to be safe than sorry!

There is nothing worse than going to a swingers club or swingers party and interacting with someone who does not have good personal hygiene or is not well presented. It is a major turn off and the chances are you will leave unsatisfied if you are the perpetrator. Very important tip!

The golden rule amongst swinging couples and swinging singles is never to be pushy and persist with unwanted advances. You are destined to leave unsatisfied and there is also a very good chance that you may never be allowed entry again to that swingers club or swingers party. Very important!

One of the basic etiquette's in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, can however lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings.

The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.

Drug use is not tolerated in most swingers clubs (and Burswood Swingers Club is no exception), although some of us drink socially. Sometimes, a few alcoholic beverages are nice to help you to "relax". Over indulging may hurt your physical abilities, as well as push people away.

If you have to over indulge in order to enjoy your swinging, you are involved for the wrong reasons.

Always make it a priority #1 to exercise safe sex.

Anyone not wanting to comply with this request is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. Your sexual health is much more important than one sexual experience!